So, I've been experimenting with Aros to try to be more considerate, to discover that my wife actually likes the room note of straight Virginia the most, more than the aros. And, even though she doesn't mind things like Billy Budd - hates Ennerdale enough to leave the room - and that was outside on a screened porch on a breezy day! I think the word was it smelled like 'air freshener'