@nscoyote first let me apologize that, that happened to your mother. I am not a member of the local Legion. These days there are more honorary members of the legion than actual Vet's it has become a bit of an old man club where men go and drink on Saturday afternoon. If anyone reading this is a member I mean no offense toward you this has just been my local experience. Your Mother earned those medals in theatre of war or during regular force service. Therefore she is entitled to wear them during public ceremony. See Canadian Forces standing orders uniforms and deportment for reference. I have seen so many people wear medals wrong, or on the wrong side knowing full well they didn't earn those medals but to be honest I have reached an age were my ego does not guide my decision making process. Although I must admit the white Poppy movement is pushing my patience. I assure you, your Mothers experience is not typical of the way Vets act. I would be most proud to attend a parade or walk in a colour party with your Mom. People are quick to forget the contributions of Dentists, Doctors, Pay clerks (we all got paid)and admin officers. They all contributed just as much as a soldier that saw combat. If your Mom is looking for STD Orders with regards to her Canadian Uniform or service medals PM me and I can supply her with that so she and you are able to properly answer someone who takes issue. There are several things in the SOP's that I disagree with, in Canada there is no official way to wear a loved ones medals. I disagree with that. There should be an allowance for a child or widow of a service member to wear those medals on Remembrance day to honour there loved one. I would like to think my service awards would not have to stay in a box forever after I am gone.