For those who love rowdy, peck, though currently on sabbatical from Forums, provides a good model. He can be wry, dry, and wildly off color without being ugly or prejudicial. It's possible to be "bad" without being perverse. With so much of the internet being a sort of sewer, I'm all for keeping it upbeat, enough that religious, more conventionally minded, or studious folks aren't repelled. Most people should feel reasonably welcome -- women (of all turns of mind), the clergy, the very young, and people old enough to remember what manners are/were.