My dad was a minesweeper skipper in the Philippines during WWII, and his brother was a landing craft skipper
at Tarawa, the first big amphibious U.S. landing when we were just learning how to do this, and the learning
cost a lot of lives. Late in life, in his 80's, two of my dad's closer friends were a Japanese couple who invited
him over for the tea ceremony and sushimi. Time had changed him and them. Probably both knew their
prejudices, but saw the self-destructive aspect of cultivating them. I heard a special forces guy on a plane
talking to the man beside him about his work in Afghanistan, explaining that most of his adversaries were
convinced that they were protecting their families and way of life. He was wise way beyond his years, and had
gone to that scary edge where he could see both sides. He no longer was at target practice with "the bad guys."
This isn't in any way to understand, explain or condone genocide or the horrors of war. It's serious work to avoid
these. I'm also a veteran.
at Tarawa, the first big amphibious U.S. landing when we were just learning how to do this, and the learning
cost a lot of lives. Late in life, in his 80's, two of my dad's closer friends were a Japanese couple who invited
him over for the tea ceremony and sushimi. Time had changed him and them. Probably both knew their
prejudices, but saw the self-destructive aspect of cultivating them. I heard a special forces guy on a plane
talking to the man beside him about his work in Afghanistan, explaining that most of his adversaries were
convinced that they were protecting their families and way of life. He was wise way beyond his years, and had
gone to that scary edge where he could see both sides. He no longer was at target practice with "the bad guys."
This isn't in any way to understand, explain or condone genocide or the horrors of war. It's serious work to avoid
these. I'm also a veteran.