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Jan 28, 2018
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Well, hell Telescope, you must have not been here for my pipesmoking in the pool pictures. One of the reasons guys give me such a hard time on here is because they’re jealous of how beautiful I am. puffy
I think one reason women supposedly love you so much is the same reason they don't like pipes. That is, they don't like large objects in their mouths.
 

bullet08

Lifer
Nov 26, 2018
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RTP, NC. USA
Well, issue with PM can be solved easily. We all know what sexual harassment can do now days. And once reported to admin, I'm pretty sure some action will be taken. As to why they don't join, no clue. When I was on other forum, it was very popular with both men and women. There weren't any specific issues between them. Of course, that forum was not regarding pipes and tobacco.
 

olkofri

Lifer
Sep 9, 2017
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The Arm of Orion
When I was on other forum, it was very popular with both men and women. There weren't any specific issues between them.
I've noticed this as well. I've been on computers, photography, pipes, and leatherwork fora. In others as well, but those have been my mainstay, check-daily, spend-all-day-there fora. The photography and leatherwork have many women actively participating, the computers and pipes hardly any. Just the way it is, male and female natures being different in order to be complementary.

I don't see the reason to sweat the paucity of women here, or—worse—embark on some affirmative action absurdity to bring more members of the fair sex to this place.
 

musicman

Lifer
Nov 12, 2019
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Cincinnati, OH
Most probably are just trying to avoid unwanted male attention. That’d be my guess anyway.
This right here. There's a pattern here. Female pipe smoker joins, and posts their welcome, often with a pic (most often, a totally normal pic too). About 70 percent of the replies are standard and welcoming, but about 30 percent are of the "yeah baby" variety, maybe not as overt as that, but in the same vein. Women in the United States and many other places already have to deal with a constant stream of unwanted advances. Why would they spend time here if this website is no exception? Then the woman sticks around for 1-4 weeks and we never see them post again. They don't come here looking for a mate.

Men: When a lady posts here, answer them as if they were just another person posting. They aren't looking for compliments and comments on their gender or appearance. Most of you are very gentlemanly and understand this (and btw, these days it is not "gentlemanly" to make unwanted comments about a woman's appearance etc.), but the few that insist on doing otherwise are ruining the site for these ladies.
 

PipeIT

Lifer
Nov 14, 2020
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30,246
Hawaii
One thing I can say for certain, is that the younger generation of younger girls/women, late teens to early twenties, does participate in the online world of computer gaming, in many games that use to be in the past, mainly male dominated, and I mean, Shooter Games, not girly games at all.

I’ve been playing online shooter games for many years, with female gamers 3x younger then me.

So when it comes to the younger generations male and female, they are actually hanging out together online.

I am an extreme PC Gamer, I play Apex Legends daily, amongst other games, and in Discord communities, there are girls everywhere.

Let’s face it, smoking in any form has always had a bad reputation, and it’s not something the newer generations are particularly drawn too either.

Pro Female Gamers too!

 
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judcole

Lifer
Sep 14, 2011
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, the computers and pipes hardly any. Just the way it is, male and female natures being different in order to be complementary.
I'm retired IT. In my 30 years in the industry, I had lots of female colleagues...and some darned good ones, to boot. I've found it fascinating - and sad - how somehow this has become seen as a male field, when some of our greatest pioneers were women. Rear Admiral Grace Murray Hopper, anyone?
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Grace_Hopper.jpg
 

Zack Miller

Part of the Furniture Now
Dec 13, 2020
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I'm retired IT. In my 30 years in the industry, I had lots of female colleagues...and some darned good ones, to boot. I've found it fascinating - and sad - how somehow this has become seen as a male field, when some of our greatest pioneers were women. Rear Admiral Grace Murray Hopper, anyone?
Grace_Hopper_1963.jpg

Grace_Hopper.jpg
When we lived in Maine, my wife worked at Bath Iron Works. We would always go to the launchings of the newest destroyer. When they launched the Grace Hopper, I think it was about zero degrees. Froze our butts off.
 

anotherbob

Lifer
Mar 30, 2019
16,606
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Unpopular opinion: there is nothing wrong with male only spaces, hobbies, clubs, or interactions.

Take a woman only space and throw a man in there, and you will see their behaviour change as well. They will start the stereotypical sexual signalling behaviours, just the female versions. Same as you see here when a woman shows up, just we display the male version.

There is a good reason to have both male only and female only spaces, as well as the coed ones.
I worked in a office with 30 some ladies and one other guy. I have to admit I now understand how annoying it can be to be constantly objectified. It's not it happening that's annoying it's the constancy combined with the lack of any real standards (like I know you're only talking to me like that because I am hotter then Josh). Yeah ladies can be as bad as men that's for sure. Though the first few months do give an ego boost.
To me though the thing isn't flirting or anything like that being inherently bad or good. The question is if it's appropriate. It becomes a problem when someone refuses to react or respect a lack of interest or return. More of a continuing to throw it in someones face no matter how coldly they react. That's the funny thing how it can be very nice or very uncomfortable or somewhere in between. Like I've heard guys say it's natural to enjoy looking at a beautiful woman, yeah it is but not to the point where you don't care about how the other person feels including how comfortable they feel. I am not saying I always get it right, but at least I try to respect and respond appropriately. That said I doubt many woman join a site like this with the intention of meeting men any more then the other way around.
Though anyone find it funny that only people identifying as men are commenting on this? :)
 

anotherbob

Lifer
Mar 30, 2019
16,606
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In the semi-rural NorthEastern USA
One thing I can say for certain, is that the younger generation of younger girls/women, late teens to early twenties, does participate in the online world of computer gaming, in many games that use to be in the past, mainly male dominated, and I mean, Shooter Games, not girly games at all.

I’ve been playing online shooter games for many years, with female gamers 3x younger then me.

So when it comes to the younger generations male and female, they are actually hanging out together online.

I am an extreme PC Gamer, I play Apex Legends daily, amongst other games, and in Discord communities, there are girls everywhere.

Let’s face it, smoking in any form has always had a bad reputation, and it’s not something the newer generations are particularly drawn too either.

Pro Female Gamers too!

one of the few major difference I've seen between men and woman is in gaming. Woman seem to get a lot more aggression and frustration out in how they play. I don't think it's inherently feminine but I do think they're not afforded the same amount of space to express their violent thoughts and feelings.
 
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I worked in a office with 30 some ladies and one other guy. I have to admit I now understand how annoying it can be to be constantly objectified. It's not it happening that's annoying it's the constancy combined with the lack of any real standards (like I know you're only talking to me like that because I am hotter then Josh). Yeah ladies can be as bad as men that's for sure. Though the first few months do give an ego boost.
To me though the thing isn't flirting or anything like that being inherently bad or good. The question is if it's appropriate. It becomes a problem when someone refuses to react or respect a lack of interest or return. More of a continuing to throw it in someones face no matter how coldly they react. That's the funny thing how it can be very nice or very uncomfortable or somewhere in between. Like I've heard guys say it's natural to enjoy looking at a beautiful woman, yeah it is but not to the point where you don't care about how the other person feels including how comfortable they feel. I am not saying I always get it right, but at least I try to respect and respond appropriately. That said I doubt many woman join a site like this with the intention of meeting men any more then the other way around.
Though anyone find it funny that only people identifying as men are commenting on this? :)
I work in a profession dominated by women. Often I am one of only a few males in a building. The part I find humorous is that often I am told by coworkers how male dominated the profession is even though there aren't many of us and we aren't the ones in power.

We all have perceptions, correct or not, that influence how we act and react. When it comes to forums like this, it might be nice to double check what we write and make sure that we are not writing special things due to the gender of the poster. Places like this can be a nice escape from the norm when we can keep our interactions professional.
 

Jim Sobie

Starting to Get Obsessed
Jun 13, 2021
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I joined this forum because if I have found a positive stereotype about pipe smokers, it's generally that they are thoughtful and think before speaking (usually because we need to tamp and re-light).

Fact of the matter is, a lot of the usernames and avatars are pretty nonspecific and I'm fine with that. Whether you're parking your stem between lipstick or under a mustache (or both!), it's all jake with me.

I do enjoy (as others have observed) that we mostly talk about the bowl and the leaf, and not sportsball, politics, the state of affairs in Upper Kabloopistan or the latest episode of whatever on TV. Hell even the disagreements I've seen here have been civil and good-natured.

And to the womenfolk amongst us, I tip my hat. May your smokes run deep, your relights few and your dottle manageable. *Puff*
 
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