OK, "mom" says that Amazon has a lavender EJ ladies model that has an extra long handle.
Now, blades: go to ebay and buy small packages of Derby, Shark, Lord, and whatever anyone else suggests - stay away from aggressive blades (homework) until you get the hang of it.
You need to make you own decision on blades, it' a personal thing.
Also invest in "My Nik is Sealed" and a blade bank.
Bedtime is at 7:30, so get busy!