The hotter you smoke, the wetter it gets. I know, it's counter intuitive.
Also, when I was just starting with pipe tobaccos, I generated a lot of saliva. I think sometimes I drooled into my pipe stem.
I clean out my shanks with a Q-tip or maybe 5 or 6 tips...then a pipe cleaner...then maybe...a rest.
Stems get a pipe cleaner.
When you light your pipe, think coax. Coax that bowl to life and nourish it with loving sips of sweet delight,
but DON'T fire it up like it's a BBQ. Treat it with a thoughtful reverence, just like you treat yourself. :D