Drawing down the flame into the tobacco requires large quantities of air movement, "Sipping" and "Lighting" are mutually exclusive actions, therefore anyone who gets tongue bite from "hard puffing" will get tongue bite from re-lights.That is news to me! Yes, some find it negative, but only a few have fessed up about that. Are you sure "a lot" is accurate?
People who keep their tobacco tinder dry and never re-light will need so few puffs that the initial light will have negligible effect, but I can't see any way around re-lights being just as bad as unrestrained puffing, they are mechanically identical, they are the same thing and will have equal effect whatever that effect may be.