Funny, we adults spend so much time teaching our children that words don't really hurt us, and to turn the cheek, and that the words only reflect the speaker... then we watch a group of adults get bent out of shape over a few words. Whether the poster meant it or not.
I have gotten into some lively debates on here, and sure they went on for pages, but we were arguing ideas or concepts.
There is a plaque on my chiropractor's wall that says, "Great men discuss ideas, average people talk about events, and small minds discuss people." Or something to that effect. I'm not saying that I am great, but at least I try.