blueeyedogre "We are still gentlemen..... well, with the exception of guys like Peck bringing us down :lol:...... I belong to several forums and this forum above all others contains a dignity, a level of respect and compassion that one doesn't find on other forum , or in the real world for that matter. Where a member can state "My son is a Marine" and he is met with "Thanks you for service" and "You should be proud". Where a member can free speak of hardship and victories and receive condolences or congrats from fellow member that true care. You started a great thing here Kevin, and while I'm not gonna kiss ass here I am going to say thank you for letting me be a part of somewhere where men still act like men, and respect and simple human decency is found."
ae1pt "We are steadily losing our sense of community in favor of society. Smartphone addicts think that they are engaged in community--what they are in is a hollow farce that usually is comprised of a bunch of posers carefully curating appearances to reflect what they want. And any can be discarded in a heartbeat.
Having to live and negotiate daily life together in neighborhoods and social enclaves of direct encounter--we learned to be considerate--in varying degrees--of each other. We maintained similar sensibilities--and were not provoked to "instant outrage" by the latest fodder to fill a web page. I run into so many young professionals these days who simply don't know how to interrelate and behave in a social environment that is not a club, bar, or similar venue.
Whilst all was not sweetness and light back in the Beaver Fantasy of the 50s, not so many ordinary things were inappropriate, and we certainly did not need the nanny mentality so prevalent today. I would like to say that the cancerous dysfunctions of prejudice, domestic violence, sexual abuse of children, disenfranchisement of women and minorities that were an entrenched part of those times was gone now. Still prevalent--just in some instances taking a different and deeply insidious form."
Well said,blueeyedogre and ae1pt ! Cannot state it any better!