unfortunately, I think that most males in America today have settled for "malehood" and completely missed "manhood". I do not at all agree that current culture determines what makes a man. if that were the case then these days you would simply have to have male genitals to attain manliness. to me a man is mature, responsible, protects and provides for his family, takes responsibility for his actions, and is a positive contributor to his community. and that is just for starters. nowadays, people run around demanding respect without having earned it, they act like immature children, there is a rising lack of present fathers, and therefore a host of other issues that come along with that.