doc', you have to allow for a range of tastes. For some people, a restful stay with no cooking or household doing would be real good. For others, give 'em the bright lights and downtown. Others want to be outdoors to walk or really hike. So you have to visualize a range of activities, even knitting. Some knitters like to be where they can people watch. I have even observed some knitters in church! It's like any group beginning with families, it's going to be mixed aspirations. I think if you had four different offerings well publicized in advance, most would find something they like. If we were all attending an event that specifically interested our wives, some of us would be happy watching games on TV with a beer, and others would want to go kayaking, and some to the history museum, etc. etc.