Ahhh you are most likely experiencing ultra cheap pipe syndrome which I am familiar with.
Many modern pipes in addition to being hyper sensitive, some can be way cheap. Like Leonessa. Bad-Cheap tenon design.
I Always allow the pipe to cool before breaking down, this is a must as the wood makes a dynamic expansion etc. that is also to do with moisture.
Many of the bit and tenons are made from delrin which is next to impossible to bond with conventional solvents etc. The tips about dremel are good and as well I will sand the surface and after the bowl is cool, it me need to be lightly reamed at the opening if it is way tight. Quickset epoxy can do the job. Cleaning plastic with acetone before bonding can remove contaminants. Acetone is a solvent for many plastics so use care. It will not disturb delrin. For the purist there are agents designed to bond delrin, but is it really worth the trouble???
I had a Grabow in my youth that had a semi military style connection. That damn pipe was rugged as hell, indestructable and smoked great.
The one sub par pipe in my collection is going to be weeded out due to my intolerance for lack of quality.
All the best.