Welcome to a really long learning process... I'll withhold my opinion since it's not worth anything yet, I'm only 3-4 years in and I've still never smoked to the bottom of a bowl. My only piece of advice is to not overthink it and don't wait until you've "figured it out" to start enjoying the pipe. I spent probably 2 years trying to do everything "right" and I've finally given up and just enjoy whatever I get out of a pipe. I've noticed that since I've done that everything has improved, less relights, less tongue bite, getting further down to the bottom of my bowls. Enjoy the journey and don't discount what works for you. No other person can replicate your specific circumstance. Imagine asking someone on a forum how to get a fire in your specific fireplace to burn at exactly X temperature for Y long. There are plenty of good principles that others do in their fireplace, but nothing will ever be tailored specifically to you. You've got to figure that out yourself, but enjoy the journey of figuring it out.