100%. My pipe smoking experience got a lot better when I stopped trying to be the perfect smoker who can smoke a bowl on a single light all the way to nothing but a fine gray ash. Especially with flakes, I think relights and stirring and having to mess with your bowl a bit is just part of the deal. I've also found the method others have described of covering the bowl with a couple of fingers, puffing, then lifting your fingers to be great for stoking an ember on verge of going out.
I am also smoking more after a hiatus, and I had some trouble picking up on flavors initially as well. I'd thought it might be related to Covid, but maybe it just takes a bit of time to retrain your olfactory senses to pick up on the flavors again.