If some guy wants me to call him Sally, Sally it is. But if that guy wants me to refer to him as a woman, or "they", I'm not going to do it, because he's not a woman and he's only one person.A man is a man and a woman is a woman. It’s objective and unequivocal. However, if someone kindly corrects me on what they prefer to be called I will have no qualms. If they aren’t kind about correcting me then we’re going to have a problem because I’m not going to apologize for an honest mistake.