Welcome to the journey of pipe smoking, it took me about a year to get down packing, tobacco being the right moisture, how fast or slow to puff, keeping a bowl lit the whole time, etc..... You learn by practice, pipe smoking is definitely an artform imho. Any pipe will get hot if you go to fast, stanwells are great, I have 2 stanwell seconds "Danish Sovereign" and one #88 Stanwell, they're great pipes. Just keep certain blends to certain pipes, that's another thing I learned after trying some blends and loving them, then revisiting them after I'd smoked something else in the pipe and not enjoying it, or not enjoying the blend until I found the right pipe. Also moisture plays a huge role, if it's too moist you get this really nasty bite from the tobacco, I'd written off a few blends to come back to them and love them again now that I have the moisture thing down.