Ironic...If you post to incite arguments then you are breaking site rules.
But back to the subjects of the post: mortality and mourning for someone. I remember her vaguely in the film "Notting Hill". Turning 53 myself, it is good to be reminded that one's life span never came with a guarantee. Live well while we have life... The important bit being the adjective 'well'; is it merely a subjective sense of 'well' or is there, as many traditions tell us, a pattern for living well...
Thanks for the post, OP.