I remember, too, how hard it all seemed the first year I smoked a pipe. Now, several years later, I can't figure out what was so difficult. Now I successfully smoke nearly 100% of my bowls packing with the the codger scoop, the three-step, two-step, Hanna Air Pocket, bend and stuff, and even the much maligned Frank method, depending on the blend, the cut, the pipe, moisture level, and where I'm smoking, all without hardly thinking. I know it's hard to believe, but keep at it and eventually it'll just work for you.