I find that lighting a cigar is not really different from lighting a pipe. First, I do a charring light, holding the cigar level above the flame and rotating it to char the end evenly for about one-half to three-quarters of an inch. Once charred, I then hold the flame just in front of the end and slowly draw it into the tobacco. Like the pipe, I believe that a cigar should be slowly sipped to maximize taste and enjoyment. Further, I find that a butane pipe-lighter works well for this technique. I would NOT use one of the jet/torch lighters, as they provide too-hot a flame.