Tip from an old Plant worker, if you can count to 5, you are below 150 degs on bowl, if you can't hold it while counting to 5 you're too damn hot. Zach is right load that sucker below the rim, wet rim with spit and Houston we've got ignition . Don't think about smoking it, read a book, watch TV do something that relaxes you and you will develop a slow cadence. Don't worry about re lights. The Lighter Police will not take your lighter away that's what it's for. Happy Puffing. One more thing when you are thru, check pipe cleaner if it's really wet, let it rest, if not, load that sucker up again and have at it.