My marriage and pipe smoking

[annapolispipes]

I'd just buy her a new pair of shoes and all's good with the world. Whenever we get into any heated discussion the pipe smoking will come up. Actually the pipe smoking is good for our marriage. I'm much less of a nag. Don't want to break the shells you know.

 

[nsfisher]

Well, the thread author's reply to all statements was: "I asked my Wife and she said...."

It's really not hard to tell who makes the rules there.

 

[hanymamdouh]

Very simple, When I want to smoke I pick up my pipe, start smoking, sometimes wife feels bad of smoking so she asks me to stop smoking, other times it is ok to smoke. that works in car, home, even in the bedroom :P

 

[jaysin]

@nsfisher Hes the king of the castel when she is not around

 

[juni]

But if there is a long queue at rush hour or you have to wait for a wreck to get cleared up or something like that you just have to have a bowl. My wife has never noticed it or never said anything (I do keep two windows open).

 

[maineyachtie]

Compromise! If she wont let you smoke in the house then commandeer one room as a study/mancave and smoke just in that room.

 

[rigmedic1]

She smokes, I smoke, we all smoke, her car, my car, with the dog, (the cat smokes too), anywhere and everywhere except in the house. But we have a nice cozy smoking porch for that too.

 

[nsfisher]

Ya I never could understand why the Wife can dictate what one can and cannot do, or where you can do it. Funny thing is, some men condider that a good marriage. lololol. Should be a comprimise there somewhere. (I can do anything I want, just a minute, I'll ask my wife.) hahahahaha

 

[jaysin]

LOL I did the my house my rules thing once and told her if she didnt like it dont let the door hit ya where the good lord split ya. She walked out and we got divorced. One of the Best days of my life. :D

 

[ssjones]

No smoking of any kind in my car. I can't imagine firing up the AC on a hot day and stale pipe smell coming out. But,I never smoked in my car period.

 

[mano]

JC not a bad idea
Re: the shoes. She has plenty. We’ve never needed to swap favors to get what we want. At least not yeat.
Hany, when she asks you to stop, do you?
Jaysin, my wife said we have a home, not a castle. She feels bad about your divorce but knows you know what’s best for yourself. She sends a big hug your way.
Mainyachty, Heck, I don’t even want to smoke in the house
Nsfisher, my wife thinks you’re adorable, but perhaps a bit frustrated. She sends a hug and a kiss.
Mlyvers, my wife thinks you’re a cutie, but maybe your plant manager may not be the best one to give you marriage advice. She sends a hug to you, too.
Everyone is invited to my house for a bar b que and a smoke.

 

[hanymamdouh]

@mano
Yes for sure, when she asks I stop instantly...I'm a good husbend and never try to anger her, we share life together, sometimes she sacrifice, others I have to sacrifice by turn.

 

[mano]

hany, while others here may not agree, I find you a most sensible man.

 

[hanymamdouh]

@mano
Thanks alot dear, but I don't think I'm that sensible man, however I always try to be.

 

[cyndi]

Marriage: What's mine is mine and what's his is mine.

 

[mano]

Marriage: What's mine is mine and what's his is mine. []

Except for any debt, right?

 

[hanymamdouh]

+1 mano :lol:

 

[cyndi]

Except for any debt, right?

Nope, that counts too.

 

[mano]

Well, you went up higher in my esteem, if that was possible.

 

[cyndi]

Hey, I entered into a partnership. We don't have debts the other one doesn't know about and accept.