I have been smoking pipes for a little less than a year. I smoked cigars for about 13 before that. The learning curve for me lasted a long time. At first, I couldn't keep a pipe lit to save my life. And then there was the tongue burn. Not bite,
burn. I have scars to prove it.
I didn't much like English tobaccos, and I hate Latakia, but I really didn't know the difference between those types of tobaccos and aromatics. I also thought that aromatics were somehow the Acid-cigars of the pipe world, and having smoked Cuban cigars almost exclusively for a long time, my ego had a hard time.
I'm not sure why I stuck with it, but I did.
Eventually, I found my ritual. And now, I can't keep a pipe out of my mouth.
I can, much of the time, keep a pipe of aromatics lit - with no hit on my ego, if I'm doing nothing but smoking. If I'm working, or doing crosswords, or whatever, I relight often.
I have learned how to sip. I have learned that my favorite packing method is, what I think is the air pocket method; I take stuff a bunch of tobacco in the bowl, clean some of the hanging strands, and push around the rim (not in the middle) until the tobacco is level with, or just under the rim. I think that this leaves an air pocket in the bottom of the bowl. I confirm this when I draw; it is almost as if there is nothing in the bowl, even if the tobaccos feels like is is packed too tightly.
I have found that some pipes, as well as some tobaccos, require slight modifications of my ritual, but over time, I have come to be able to feel my way around.
For me, pipes are so much fun, it is a wonder that they aren't fattening.
Stick with it. Give yourself time. I am confident that you will find your ritual. And, once you do, there will be no turning back.
Edit: Also read
this article on the thermodynamics of smoking. It helped me to no end.