I have young adult daughters, neither yet married?. I fantasize smoking a cigar or pipe with my future sons-in-law. My now deceased father-in-law used to smoke cigars with me and gave me ST Dupont cigar scissors that I still cherish. Of course, I was already an adult and occasional pipe and cigar smoker. Obviously, if my (imaginary) sons-in-law don't smoke, so be it. But if they do, I will be thrilled to give them pipes, cigars, tobacco, lighters, etc.