Gunnar, sounds like you are deeply involved in the preparations, which is a good thing. Sometimes the groom is almost the forgotten man! Hey, you and your partner are already bonded; the event is a great time to get the families and friends aboard with you. Congratulations! A woman can add, like, binocular vision, help you see things you never saw before, especially in human relations. Your wife sees a whole different party than you do, when you go together. And she gains from your observation in the same way.