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fnord

Lifer
Dec 28, 2011
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Topeka, KS
Gary:
Pictures or it never happened.
Congratulations, brother. We hope mother and son are both doing well.
Fnord

 

jiujitsubowl

Can't Leave
May 19, 2015
434
0
Muskegon Michigan
Thank you everyone for the kind words. It ended up being a c section because my wfe is so tiny but all is well no complications. We just gotta hang out at the hospital a little longer. Much love guys, thank you!

 

tarak

Lifer
Jun 23, 2013
1,528
15
South Dakota
Congrats! I hope all is well. Fatherhood is a blessing- and a challenge! I run pediatric clinic if you need a pediatrician - but it might be a bit of a drive up to Minnesota!

 

jiujitsubowl

Can't Leave
May 19, 2015
434
0
Muskegon Michigan
Thank you everyone. Now the roughest part.....they released mommy today but the boy was having trouble breast feeding so they gotta keep him one more night and try and put some formula weight on him. Mommy is not happy but understands baby health first!

 

buster

Lifer
Sep 1, 2011
1,305
3
when our second was born I was going to take our oldest to the movies. My wife was strangely bothered by being home alone with the baby. I was annoyed at the time. Then I realized something was up. She was having mild postpartum depression. I felt like an ass for being annoyed at her. So the fix for me was to ask if she would like to take our oldest to the movies and I would stay home with the baby. She decided that was what she wanted to do. She came home feeling better and that's what we all want. I missed the LEGO movie. Big wuup! Great movie I saw it two weeks later because my oldest wanted to see it again. So be flexible, go with the flow. This shit has a way of working itself out.
So that and you may not know but lots of women have breastfeeding anxiety and troubles and sorry dude but your going to have lots of talks about feelings and emotions. Just have patience because this will pass. Give her time to do simple stuff like get her hair cut. Go to the grocery store by herself. Get some to go food so she doesn't have to cook.easy stuff like that. The plus side is you get to spend time with your little dude. Dive in and take charge. She will remember that for a long time.

 

newbroom

Lifer
Jul 11, 2014
6,386
10,206
North Central Florida
I was going to offer some advice cautioning about post partum depression.
buster's advice is sufficient.

Don't take it lightly because this is a critical time for the entire family. You may have been dealing with hormonal changes during the pregnancy, but they're still happening and they are volatile.

Your protective paternal eye must include mom as much as the newborn for all your sakes.

 

echie

Can't Leave
Jul 7, 2014
368
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Amsterdam
Congratulations, Gary! I'm the father of a 3 month-old daughter, and I've literally *just* received from my wife a video of our baby turning around on her own for the first time. You'll be amazed at how much you'll enjoy these little milestones :)
Welcome to the club! :puffy:

 

buroak

Lifer
Jul 29, 2014
2,155
1,082
NW Missouri
Congratulations! Find your son's birth year pipe now - it will be harder to find 18 years hence. Then, if you believe in funding your son's post-secondary education, you can start that 529.

 

wyfbane

Lifer
Apr 26, 2013
5,460
5,210
Tennessee
Congratulations! One can change the world through a big idea or raising a good kid. You are on the path to changing the world!!
Celebrations are in order!

 
May 4, 2015
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Congrats. My boy just turned 3 and it has gone way too quickly. Spend as much time as possible around him, because they do something new every day and it is really amazing to watch!
Happiness and health to all of you!

 

settersbrace

Lifer
Mar 20, 2014
1,564
5
Congratulations on that fine looking boy. Don't blink, seriously, I know everyone will tell you they grow up quick but the reality is that we parents grow old quick. I still recall my infant daughter sleeping on my chest, not much longer than my forearm. She's a senior in college now. :)

 
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