My dad at my wedding reception in 1978.
He passed two years after that. Here he was a decorated war hero so to speak and we(my sister and I) never knew it. Not until my mom passed in 2010 and we were having to go through everything, upon which exercise I found his medals. He was a very stern, austere, and Spartan sort of person... but a backbone of America type.
In a happier vein, here is one of my favorite self-father-pictures, taken in 1990. I'm the happy fellow in the bed... it was some day off and we were trying to catch a bit more of sleep-in when we were charged by a happily raging gaggle of kinder. For a little perspective, the youngest one in the pic, the one in the up-scope position as we called it, just got out of the Marine Corps a couple years back and is going to college on the GI bill. The other son followed to my alma mater and is a public school music teacher, same as me.(I warned him, but....
(I'm retired, btw). And my daughter is a professional pastry chef, graduated from CIA in Hyde Park about ten years ago. The three of them are married, work their behinds off, and I am so proud of all three, I could burst. Oh... no grandkids yet... just grand cats and dogs so far! But there's time... Happy Father's Day to all!!