In reality, I don't do fees nor, do I take a lot of risk. I'll pay for advice though. I'm a pretty conservative with my disposable income. I've got a good broker, a lot of interest in the markets and very little spine. So I read, research and sit on my wallet most times.
It's a fun, entertaining, educational, and sometimes eye opening adventure. For me to peel off a few bills and invest I have to be pretty sure that, in the long term, I'll get a decent return. Actually the kids will get it all, including the attendant taxes, without any of the risk. I wish I was my kid.