Since this has resurrected, I would add that I too keep soft flame above, and fire “springs forth” from tobak. Mind you, this has gotten much better once I got a handle on packing and drying tobacco.
Also popped in to mention: I only use bic lighter since they took away the gas adjustment as a backup. I haven’t gotten a zippo with pipe insert, but I will.
I seek out the old Djeep lighter, in my opinion they are the best disposable lighters-last longer and still allow user to adjust flame.
If not available at local convenience stores, etc, they can be had on scamazon.