Interesting, Im right handed, clench left. I occasionally try to switch to right when my jaw or teeth ache, but it always feels wrong, so it goes back to the left. Never tried softie bits, seems like too much material being stuffed in my mouth. I buy saddle stem pipes so I wont have as much to clench. I dont want it to be like the bite block at the dentist or anything. I barely get the button past my teeth, and sometimes I angle it so Im biting on that too. I have always had a tendency to grit my teeth, so it just comes natural for me to hold it in my teeth. Im trying to get the natural breathe technique down.
Anyhow, thanks for the feedback. At least now I know Im not the only one cooking the same spot on their tongue all day, lol.