The other day at my first pipe club meeting with a room full of newbies and just a couple of us graybeards, I noticed that guys who didn't grow up watching smokers, just have no concept of SLOW.
"puff puff puff, see, puff puff, I am going, puff puff, as slow, puff puff, as I can, puff puff."
I know someone is going to get their panties in a wad, because they will misunderstand me, but I advise newbies to strive for smoking like they are trying to hide the smoke from anyone who might see them. Slow, long draws, slow releases, trying not to make any visible smoke. Maybe once every third breath, then draw. DONT PUFF
I am not saying that this is the only or best way to smoke. I am just suggesting it as an exercise in slowing down. However, in growing up, I just never saw anyone but a rookie or a child blow out a cloud of smoke. I am sure that a porch full of men smoking pipes back in the day would have cracked a smile and a few jokes at seeing someone blowing big clouds, lol.
But, there is no right and wrong, just some with burnt tongues, lol.