Warren gives good advice. Most old timers , and here I will probably go against the grain have one tobbaco they fall back on day in and day in, newbies are confused by all this Hey try this out, No this is the best. Don't pay attention to this, find what you like then practice on it. Load and then go on auto pilot, just smoke, read a book, listen to music, stop worrying if you're doing it right . It's like your first diddle, thought you weren't doing it right bit it was the best you ever had. It gets better, there are no rules, the pipe police won't confiscate your pipes if you relight 3 times or 100. It's your own thing no ones else.