Take it from this novice here...it's all about technique and dry time. When I first started, I was smoking goopy aromatics straight out of the tin, with no clue about technique. Yet I was shocked at how often I was getting tongue bite, which is a little like being surprised when a politician lies. Once I gave the smoking ritual some serious thought and worked on my technique, the problem started to go away. I rarely have it anymore. Proper drying time (especially for aros) took it to the next level, but without the technique, you can dry your leaf for three days and have the same problem as if you smoked Molto Dolce right out of the can. It takes time to improve technique, and constant adjustments, which can be difficult when you're just trying to sit down and enjoy a bowl without thinking about it. In some ways, it reminds me of learning how to play golf as a kid. You've seriously got like a dozen different things to remember at once, and as soon as you've got one part down, you forget another, and boom, your 3-wood shot skips along the ground and goes 80 yards. But back to pipe smoking...it's a delicate balance between being mindful of technique, and emptying your mind of all distractions and enjoying your smoke. Very, very delicate.
So get out there and try not to screw up! (sorry, that was my paternal grandfather speaking!)