Reconsidering Things

quincy

Part of the Furniture Now

Feb 7, 2013

508

10

• Oct 31, 2013

• #1

So, I'll be completely honest and open here. My wife and I are having problems. I'm starting counseling. She doesn't think we have any problems which is part of the problem. However, last night I smoked an aromatic in the house thinking that it would be nice to give people a break. Tonight as I pulled out my pipe for my evening smoke, she told me not to smoke "that crap" I smoked last night. So, per the wife's orders I'm only allowed to smoke English blends in the house. This may make me reconsider my thoughts on this marriage!

 

pylorns

Lifer

Aug 20, 2013

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353

Austin, Texas

www.thepipetool.com

• Oct 31, 2013

• #2

Hey least you can smoke "something" in the house...

 

warren

Lifer

Sep 13, 2013

11,733

16,332

Foothills of the Chugach Range, AK

• Oct 31, 2013

• #3

Who's paying down the mortgage in that house?

 

weezell

Lifer

Oct 12, 2011

13,653

49,165

• Oct 31, 2013

• #4

Wellllll, if that's the case, Light up a BIG BOWL of Cerberus and see how THAT trips her trigger(The only pipe tobacco I've ever smoked that the wife said "SMELLS LIKE SHIT")She will either love ya or leave ya...

 

fitzy

Lifer

Nov 13, 2012

2,937

27

NY

• Oct 31, 2013

• #5

wow I didn't think anyone liked the room note of english blends other than smokers themselves.

 

puffy

Lifer

Dec 24, 2010

2,511

98

North Carolina

• Oct 31, 2013

• #6

I hope you can work things out..Divorce is really hard.Avoid it if you can.

 

quincy

Part of the Furniture Now

Feb 7, 2013

508

10

• Nov 1, 2013

• #7

Yeah. Things will work out the way they're meant to. I'm committed to trying everything I can and divorce as the absolute LAST resort. I was just shocked she liked English blends.

 

terrygoldman123

Can't Leave

Jun 2, 2013

427

1

Virginia

• Nov 1, 2013

• #8

Be sure your counselor is male and smokes.

 

crazypipe

Lifer

Sep 23, 2012

3,484

0

• Nov 1, 2013

• #9

My wife may she rest in peace liked anything i smoked.

 

cynyr

Part of the Furniture Now

Feb 12, 2012

646

113

Tennessee

• Nov 1, 2013

• #10

quincy - You're committed, and that's the best way to be. Listen to roth. Hang in there, and best of luck.
Teddy - God love ya, mate.

 

foggymountain

Lifer

Aug 14, 2012

2,872

123

• Nov 1, 2013

• #11

Honestly, I can't stand the smell of cherry or similar blends either. As for wives, many of them are way too pushy and need to be put in their place verbally once in a while.

 

mso489

Lifer

Feb 21, 2013

41,210

60,459

• Nov 1, 2013

• #12

Sometimes, like a broken bone, if you can put it back together, it's stronger than ever.

Romantic balderdash, I suppose, but nonetheless sometimes true.

 

murf

Can't Leave

Mar 1, 2013

446

1

• Nov 1, 2013

• #13

Good for you for going to counseling. Better than neither of you going. Good luck and God bless

 

swampmouth

Starting to Get Obsessed

Oct 4, 2013

123

0

• Nov 1, 2013

• #14

Been there. Are you happier alone? I am. After 6 years of hellish divorce, my only regret is marrying in the first place. NEVER AGAIN!

 

mso489

Lifer

Feb 21, 2013

41,210

60,459

• Nov 1, 2013

• #15

swampmouth, I married late, at age 30, then was a widower at age 54, until I was 64, and remarried a woman

I'd met at age 19. Married is better for me, but the times single were good years (accept for the grief part after

losing my wife). Stay close to family and/or friends. Some of us do best solo.