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ssjones

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It took nearly a year and a half, but yesterday, my fathers service at Arlington National Cemetery finally happened. We had temps in the teens,with fresh snow, challenging for the attendees, but it sure made for a beautiful setting. He had the full honor guard, Caissons and drum/fife (larger band restricted due to the weather). It was pretty inspiring to witness. I pretty much held it together until they played taps. The SGM gave the flag to my mother.
I've had his urn in my living room since he passed (Nov '17) and I'd become accustomed to patting the top and chatting with him occasionally, I'll miss that.
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We had a photographer take pictures, but below are some family members took.
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My oldest daughter wrote this poem for her Pap, and that really choked me up.



A cold and blustery winters day,

We gather to say goodbye.

A war hero, but so much more,

To those he left behind.
We lay him down among his comrades,

Most he never even knew.

But all gave their lives n some gave all,

To the Grand Red, White, and Blue.
Our hearts fill with pain,

Not just for this goodbye.

But for every other cross we see,

And whom beneath it lies.
Not everyone had family,

Who came to say farewell.

Not everyone had bugles blast

As tears in eyes did swell.
So here we stand, our hero gone.

But full of pride, our hearts.

For his life long duty to the USA

Will never be forgot.
In Arlington our Pap will lie,

Among the very best.

On this cold and blustery winters day,

We lay him here to rest.


 

cortezattic

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Got me pretty choked-up just reading that! Thanks for the post, Al. He may have left your home, but you've given his remains to all America, to be cherished by all forever.

 

raevans

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Thank you for sharing a very special and touching moment in your life with us. Your father sounds like he was a pretty special guy. I'm glad that he was given full honors. He was definitely one of the few that was willing to step up and be the protector, defender, educator, and one to always be on call for the rights of a Nation and its people.

 

chilly65

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Nov 13, 2018
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Very nice. I always suggested to my father that he should be buried at Arlington. But he said he was born in southern Ohio, and wanted to be buried where he grew up.
Quite an honor for your father.

 
May 8, 2017
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I understand that among the various national cemeteries, being buried at Arlington is particularly special, with stringent requirements. So, your father must have been an exemplary soldier. My father-in-law was buried a few years ago at Lincoln National Cemetery, SW of Chicago. It was the perfect place for him. The service was moving and the servicemen and servicewomen in charge were very respectful, yet caring. I appreciate, too, the volunteers who assist with these ceremonies.

 

mso489

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Feb 21, 2013
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Magnificent send-off. He rests in honor. I kept my late wife's urn in the living room for several years before scattering her ashes as she had requested. I'm not sure if there were any requirements about the location, but she would have disdained permissions, so I simply took binoculars and a bird guide in a backpack with the ashes as a cover, and released her remains to the dunes and prairie warblers. Ten years after her passing, I remarried, a woman I met in college when we were still in our teens.

 
Jan 8, 2013
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I pretty much held it together until they played taps.
As it was for me, last January when my father was laid to rest.
From the photos you provided, it looks like it was a beautiful service. And your daughter's poem was lovely.
Thank you for sharing. I have so much respect.

 

seldom

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Mar 11, 2018
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Condolences on the loss of your father. May this burial in such an honorable place bring you some comfort and peace.
The white snow, white horses, and white grave markers all create a fittingly ethereal image.

 

brian64

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Jan 31, 2011
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My condolences Al...and thanks for sharing all of that. And I must say your daughter is really a gifted writer.

 

scloyd

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May 23, 2018
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Thanks for sharing that experience and your daughter's poem. Very nice!

 

redone

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Aug 4, 2018
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Very touching. Much respect for you father and prayers for your family

 
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