Although, I think that the OP has checked out,... the main issue is not just getting the
pipe too hot, but smoking with the
tobacco too hot, thus burning your tongue or just not getting maximum flavor from the tobacco. And, yes, if you are enjoying your smoke, who is to say whether your smoking too hot or not? If you enjoy it, then keep on. However, for those who may be looking to maximize their pleasure in smoking, I recommend clay pipes. If you can smoke one of those slowly enough and cool enough to hold it, you will be getting maximum flavors and appeal on the tongue. Just because your thick pipe stays cool, doesn't mean that you couldn't be smoking it cooler for more flavor. But, then again, if you enjoy it, then you must be doing it correctly. :
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