didimauw, I am not sure of the situation you mention. Hey no worries just keep posting but follow number nine. Every group I have ever belonged to has some rules, and some who love to police others. Make adjustments and be part of the forum. Unless it is not worth it to you, then move on. But I encourage you to stay, this forum is a wealth of knowledge and has members that do things for others in the forum that are quite amazing.
Anyway hope you stay around.