Parents sometimes convince their children that they are already who they later become. General MacArthur
and Norman Mailer both had moms who doted on them with unending intensity and fanned the fires of
their egos. Picasso's dad surrendered his own career in painting to shower attention and expectations
on his son. This behavior doesn't always improve the person (at least in these three cases, probably not)
but sometimes drives their talent and ambition. In Pavarotti's case, despite the vast waves of adulation he
confronted at most performances, he remained a somewhat affable and sociable human being, at least to
some degree. I think it is the confidence instilled in a young person, that then radiates to those in the
chosen profession, that makes them stand out and generates unusual and continuing opportunities. So
much depends on the often irrational conviction that you can do the unprecedented work.