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crazypipe

Lifer
Sep 23, 2012
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IT WAS HERE BEFORE I WAS READY
WHEN I FIRST STARTED TO READ THIS E-MAIL I WAS READING QUICKLY UNTIL I

REACHED THE THIRD SENTENCE. THEN I STOPPED AND STARTED OVER, READING MORE

SLOWLY AND THINKING ABOUT EVERY WORD.
And then it is Winter.

The seasons of our life
You know. . . time has a way of moving quickly and catching you unaware of

the passing years. It seems just yesterday that I was young, just married

and embarking on my new life with my mate. Yet in a way, it seems like eons

ago, and I wonder where all the years went. I know that I lived them all. I

have glimpses of how it was back then and of all my hopes and dreams.
But, here it is... the winter of my life and it catches me by surprise. How

did I get here so fast? Where did the years go and where did my youth go?
I remember well...seeing older people through the years and thinking that

those older people were years away from me and that winter was so far off

that I could not fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like.
But, here it is. My friends are retired and getting gray...they move slower

and I see an older person now. Some are in better and some in worse shape

than me...but, I see the great change...Not like the friends I remember who

were young and vibrant...but, like me, their age is beginning to show, and

we are now those older folks that we used to see and never thought we'd be.
Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for the

day! And taking a nap is not a treat anymore... it's mandatory! Cause if I

don't do it of my own free will... I just fall asleep where I sit!
And so...now I enter into this new season of my life unprepared for all the

aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go and do things

that I wish I had done but never did!! But, at least I know, that the

winter has come, and I'm not sure how long it will last.

This I know. . . when it's over, its over.
Yes, I have regrets. There are things I wish I hadn't done...things I

should have done, but, indeed, there are many things I'm happy to have

done. It's all in a lifetime.
So, if you're not in your winter yet...let me remind you, that it will be

here faster than you think. So, whatever you would like to accomplish in

your life, please do it quickly! Don't put things off too long!! Life goes

by quickly. Do what you can today, as you can never be sure whether this is

your winter or not!
You have no promise that you will see all the seasons of your life...so,

live for today and say all the things that you want your loved ones to

remember...and hope that they appreciate and love you for all the things

that you have done for them in all the years past!!
"Life" is a gift to you. The way you live your life is your gift to those

who come after. Make it a fantastic one.

Remember: It is health that is real wealth . . . not pieces of gold and

silver.

Life is too short to let even one day be frenzied or frazzled or frittered away.

Life is too short not to take time to do the things that will hold the most

meaning for you.
So let yourself float like a leaf on a stream, relax with your memories and let

yourself dream.
Throw out your list that's impossibly long, and dance a few steps to a favorite

song...
Turn off the news and go find someone real who'll listen and talk and affirm

what you feel.
Life is too short and flies by if you let it so choose what you want every

day--and go and get it.
And then it is Winter.
You know. . . time has a way
PS: A special thanks goes out to a friend who forwarded me this wonderful

message. I hope you will enjoy the message just as I have.

 

brdavidson

Lifer
Dec 30, 2012
2,017
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It is health that is the real wealth.........I couldn't agree more. My lovely wife just turned 36 and has been in the hospital for a full year now, you never know when life will throw you a curve ball. Play the game as it is meant to be played, with honour, integrity and joy and remember that those you love are more important than anything material in this world. Thanks for the post Teddy.

 

zonomo

Lifer
Nov 24, 2012
1,584
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Great post. I played it audibly (Macs do that built in) and just disconnected from email and everything to concentrate on this. It's so so so so true.

 

brassonly

Starting to Get Obsessed
Sep 3, 2012
152
1
Yes indeed, thanks Teddy . This is so true , I needed to read that. Thanks again !

 

papipeguy

Lifer
Jul 31, 2010
15,777
40
Bethlehem, Pa.
This really hit home with me. My wife has been in the hospital since last Wednesday with complications from severe COPD. It just reminds one not to squander one day and enjoy those around you to the fullest. Thanks for sharing this.

 

mlyvers

Can't Leave
Sep 23, 2012
487
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thank you teddy, this made me tear up. iam a blessed man, i have regerts as well. oh well what can i say. iam 54 years old now, young by some standards i suppose. i guess most men have have regrets too some degree. again thank you.
mike.

 
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