Welcome to the forums, Pourspellar!
I had similar questions a couple of months back.
First answer: Relax.
Second answer: Check your technique - are you puffing away as if the pipe were a cigarette or a blast furnace? I'm still working on slowing down and sipping...
Third answer: Don't sweat the relights - they happen. As your technique improves, this often resolves itself - or else you relax enough not to worry about it when it happens.
Those were the three answers that I found most immediately helpful (your mileage may vary). I also learned about drying out my goopier aromatic tobaccos before smoking them - poke around in the forums here, and search on specific terms - tamping, drying, relights, etc. Lots of good stuff in here - and I'm sure the more experienced pipe smokers will have plenty of good advice to offer you.