You really should do it that way. A big part of selecting a pipe is how it "looks on you".
That applies to men too! For example, a tall Canadian billiard would look out of place in a short, stumpy guy's mouth.
And a tall, Lincoln-esque guy could probably do better than smoke a squat bulldog.
Of course, a lot of shapes are selected on the basis of when and where you smoke. Deeply bent pipes provide the needed
leverage when both hands are busy while working, etc., so they're easy to clench in the teeth.
Color and finish? I probably wouldn't choose a blonde wood pipe from the rack for evening smoking.