As a new pipe smoker myself (only a few weeks into this amazing hobby) This is what I've learned:
1: Take it slow. If you feel like you are taking it slow, you're probably not.

There is no such thing as a quick smoke.
2: There are not really any essentials aside from a pipe and tobacco. What kind of pipe, what kind of tobacco, those are each personal choices. (However, it is possible to land a $18 hardwood POS basket pipe from a cigar shop. That's what I started on.)
3: Enjoy yourself! If you don't like a blend, then move on until you find something you do like.
PM me your addy and I will send you a package for you to give this a go and if you find that it's your thing you can expand into this great hobby. If not you lose nothing.
As you have already discovered, the pipe community is a very generous one!
Zito: You are generous!