I could never get into the trigger on the XD. Have you tried a Glock? I’m a full convert and have that 43. A 17, and 21. I’d like to get a 10mm but I’ve already got a Colt Delta Elite.
Get the Glock. Stocking up on 10mm’s is always a solid move. I have 3 and I love my G20 and G29. However, the Sig is my favorite.
My EDC is a G29 loaded, quite literally, for bear.