Five Brothers has never treated quite that badly, but my dad was a non-stop Granger smoker, so maybe I was a burley baby. But do treat it with respect, a small bowl or partial bowl for starters. Try it after a good meal to sustain yourself, and have enough water in your system. Go slow at first. After you've made friends, you may wonder what the fuss was about. But I like to be respectful starting out. This is supposed to be a pleasure, not an ordeal. I'll have a bowl of Five Brothers on your behalf and wish you well.