Memorial Day is about those that made the ultimate sacrifice in combat. Sorry it’s a pet peeve, there are plenty of days about those that serve and served, this one is for those that never came home.
about a million years ago when i was in 9th grade we took a school field trip from Florida to DC stopping and visiting all of the landmarks. In DC we went to the National cemetery, I’ll never forget this as long as i live, one of the girls was taken aside by a couple of the dress uniform guards and we didn’t see her the rest of the day, it turns out her father was killed in Vietnam 3 days before she was born, she had never been to his grave and she was given an escort to his final resting place. Every year on this day i have a steak, and a good cigar for those that didn’t come home and every year for the past 20 yrs or so i send her a short text on memory of her father, it’s become our thing. For that day on it was ingrained in me what Memorial Day stands for, she never got to meet her father, this day is for the men and women that never came home, never saw their families again and in some cases never met their children.