No one in my family drank, except for one uncle, and he didn't exactly set an example as a role model. In high school, I went to one party where we held our nose and just tried to get drunk to see what it was like. It was not fun, queasy stomach, feeling hot like a fever, equilibrium was off, short tempered because of the feeling. It was like the flu. And, the next day was ten times worse. So, I never touched the shit again... until...
When I first went to a pipe club meeting, I met a gentleman who talked me into going to some wineries. So, my wife and I started doing wine tastings. It was a lot of fun, mostly because you didn't ingest the wines, just sipped and spit. I was struggling to taste tobaccos, coffee, and now wines. And, it helped me develop a palate for tasting.
Then I started making wines. I could stomach a glass, hardly ever any more than that. Then a year ago, I started noticing guys lined up outside the ABC store. Curiosity got me, and I found guys lined up to buy one of only maybe 20 bottles of single barrel bourbons for $200 or so. Talking to them, I realized that there was a bourbon club, which tasted more than just bourbons, but ryes, scotch, etc... So, i joined, and made a lot of new friends.
One sip of a bourbon, and I feel it. So, I had to take it easy, as no one was spitting, like at wine tastings, ha ha. I also found that micro sips were better at pulling the flavors from the bourbons anyways. However, I always taste these after a big dinner, and always with enough time to take a 15 minute walk to wear it off. I still to this day do not like any feeling of drunkenness. It still feels like a virus or flu to me. I just come to terms that some guys like this feeling, and that's ok. I will pour me a glass occasionally, take my taste and pour it out. My step son enjoys coming over to join me, as he is learning also.
What I gather is that the whisky genre is mostly flavored with wood. I enjoy that taste about like I would a tobacco, but I look forward to the effects of tobacco way more than the alcohol. If I am going to actually drink, I much prefer the taste of a high quality fruit wine. But, for me, I enjoy the sociability. Having people over to taste wines. I will definitely pour someone as many glasses as they see fit, which is always more than I would want to ingest.