Funny, I grew up in a Southern fundamentalist denomination that forbade the celebration of Christmas, but my family secretly celebrated Santa Clause for us kids. But, it was always on the downlow, keeping it quiet. We didn't want fellow church members to find out. You'd maybe see a wreath or a plastic Santa in someone's yard... something secular to show some Holiday or seasonal flair. But, now it's like "who can put the largest manger in their yard?" "Who can outdo the Jone's?" It's like we WANT it to be more commercial!
I agree. I prefer Thanksgiving also. But, there is something magical about pulling those boxes of ancient ornaments out of the attic, and sacrificing a tree to bring inside the house. Everyone setting around and hoping for more kindness and generosity in the world.