Welcome from the NJ Shore.
Pick a blend. Pack it loosely. Barely keep your pipe alight and take the tiniest of draws, concentrating on tasting.
Tamp gently as you smoke to keep the ember in contact with the tobacco beneath.
Relights are free. Don’t concern yourself with “how many” and as soon as you see a wisp of Smoke, you’ve succeeded. The fire barely needs to touch the tobacco to get it going again.
Slow and gentle. If you don’t like the blend you’ve chosen, try others. Welcome!