Last week I visited my brother and while there I picked up Grandpa's ash tray. My brother doesn't smoke and it didn't mean anything to him. I wanted it because it connected me to my Grandfather who died in 1967. I remember him sitting in his chair with that ash trash and a container of matches. There he would watch his black and white TV and smoke one cigarette after another. I never saw him light one off the other, but there wasn't much time in between smokes. The living room was filled with this purple, gray smoke. The living room looked like the fog moving into early London. I remember sitting there and watching the first Super Bowl with him. He would die that December, two days before Christmas. He was a crusty, old curmudgeon, who could swear without comparison. He made swearing into an artform. He could be thoughtful and caring and I remember on Sundays we would sit on the tailgate, and he would take us for a ride. Today if he did that, he would get 5 to 10 years in jail for child abuse. So, it was just a silly old cast iron ash tray of a drunk holding on to a lamp pole, but it was a connection with by gone days.
Thanks for suffering through my memories.

Thanks for suffering through my memories.

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