Family psychology and dynamics is a dark cave when they go wrong. The fact that two adult brothers would beat a sibling is itself a sign that something was deeply wrong. I sure wouldn't be sharing holidays with a sib that did that, but to indulge in assault of family members illustrates rather than expiates the problem. Am I being over sensitive? Everyone got out alive and perhaps mostly intact, but something was way wrong in that family, all the way around. This is supposed to be a family. This is not supposed to be the mob. In this group, I wouldn't know who to believe. Anyway, I still appreciate Bing as a vocalist and performer, and I hope things were considerably better and less damaged than they sound. Celebrity and fame often has profound ill effects on marriages and family, and is an unseen villain in this scenario.